Tuesday, 29 November 2011

Use your words with care

Mind your language ..or else

Words common word for all of us .We think words,we talk words.
We do this daily in fact every second of life consist of words. Words have the power of life or death... in relationships, confidence, self image and esteem. We communicate love, compassion, hatred, doubt... the whole range of emotions. They affect us and those that hear us. The words within our thoughts affect our feelings and emotions, which in turn affects our actions. We can build bridges or tear one another apart because of them. A careless word can affect another person for a lifetime, for the good or bad, and you may never even be aware of it.They say you can change you life when you alter your thoughts,what does thought consist of?Words Words Words.

Lets check out the power of words.

You are looking beautiful(wow..gals it made your day for some you don’t even care what others say..but you still say this to yourself at least).

Take care(simple words but somebody is caring for you)

Best of Luck(I remember I use to say my mom during exams …say best of luck to me daily)

May God give you all what you want(blessings are blessed words)

You are such a idiot,rascal,bastard(whats that sounding to you?)

I Love you (the most beautiful words in your life)

I am with you always no matter what(Most touching words)

Mad,you must have copied that answer from me(Friendship words)

Allah please lead me the right path(Hope words)

I know you can do it (confidence words)

You are my latest crush(Flirty words)

Go to hell, you mean nothing to me (Anguish words)

Your confidence is too low(self esteem words)

I love myself(self respect words)

Go pick up those utensils (Commanding words)

Words have tremendous power. Words give out energy and a message which creates a reaction in others. Everything you say produces an effect in the world. Whatever you say to someone else will produce some kind of an effect in that person. We are constantly creating something, either positive or negative with our words.
So,now you mind your words

Wednesday, 23 November 2011

A Buffet Lunch United Concept Applied

Restaurant review

‘United we stand and divided we fall’, I don’t know who said this quote but it is applicable to all. First Retail sector applied the concept of unity of  different products in one you called it  Big Bazaar, Reliance Fresh  etc.

Then came food sector, they applied it to Restaurants, wow awesome brains!
Let’s start with Restaurant review.

A Buffet Lunch United Concept Applied
Have a look at the menu (Lucky it changes on day basis)
They know you don’t have to think and ponder what is it all about, the names, the dishes, starters, main course & Desserts. So they will do it for you, I mean the menu is predecided


Chicken Soul soup-Was tasting like Chicken soup (water in which chicken is boiled) + rice soup (water in which rice is boiled)….it was okay kind

For veggies Potato Soup-I did not taste it but potato soup!


On this side I said I would love to plunge on all the starters, even being strict non vegetarian (now).

Paneer something –Soft paneer with grilled spice in it

Papdi Cheese-This was not actual name,the waiter said something else ..a sevpuri wali puri…with vegetables and  melt cheese..nice combination….can I call it Cheese puri..it was nice creation although

Panipuri does not tasted as local pani puri,as this one contains mineral paani.

Mushroom cheese grilled...i don’t like mushrooms

Please koi Nonveg lao…

Tandoori chicken it was not our traditional Indian tandoori at all, some other masala they added, the taste was okies kinda, still I ate it

Fish tikka it was having mouth melting taste. And he gave it only oneL...But we were too shameful to ask it for more

Mutton seekh with pudina spice –for mutton lovers you will love it

So here was Hen, Fish and Goat on one table they were united in your stomach J

Main course was not self service

Salad Section
You can actually see lots of creativity in the section

Tooth pick with green chili dropped in vinegar
Ice berg leaves
Cucumber and beetroot
Corn salad
Raw papaya (awesome taste)

Main course

I don’t know why they called tandoori roti…bread

Phulkas on the spot

Veg handi he will make right in front of you
Veg rice
Dal makhani
Paneer palak(we called it palak paneer)
Murg Biryani (chicken they said it murg, again creativity used …many people don’t know what’s murg and this will be a uncommon dish for them)
Bhuna Fish –I t was authentic mughlai dish …awesome taste


Strawberry ice-cream
Butterscotch ice-cream
Chocolate cake
One more flavored cake
I never knew why watermelon was garnished with Pudina, in this section
Hot Jalebis
Moong dal ka halwa
Diya cake pudding(cake pudding in diya moulds)

That was all for Rs 450/- per person

What was good

The forest theme
The jungle costume of  waiters and waitress
The Jhinga lala music
Food variance ..some was okay and tasty

What was bad
They called it World on you plate,they should call it india on your plate..pani puri,palak paneer,phulka etc,these indian dishes
I found that starters fill you so much ,that you can just have a window shopping at the main course

But the food sector made it large, yes people like this concept as they think you get variety to eat in just rs 450/-

Sunday, 20 November 2011

do you wanna drink a peg?

Alcohol is prohibited ,what?why said Miarah ,she said whats wrong in it.You can drink once in a while ,no problem being a social drinker at times sweety
There was question mark on my face,I simply said I don’t like the smell too..
But you can taste the milder one,nope its not allowed in our religion Islam.and I move on
I  came back home, with question tags in my mind,everybody drink ,in parties at times it’s a enjoyable element for them.
I asked my Grandpa ,Why is Alcohol forbidden in Islam ?I don’t know whether I will able to pen down it with my grandpa words as I am no expert to say,but I would simply love to share it.
He smiled with wrinkles and said ,”its great you asked me this question “
Let me ask you one question ,have you observed any alcoholic person,If yes how does it appears to you?

Alcohol has been the scourge of human society since time immemorial. It continues to cost countless human lives, and causes terrible misery to millions throughout the world. Alcohol is the root cause of several problems facing society. The statistics of soaring crime rates, increasing instances of mental illnesses and millions of broken homes throughout the world bear mute testimony to the destructive power of alcohol.

I will give you scientific reason
The human beings possess an inhibitory centre in their brains. This inhibitory centre prevents the person from doing things that he considers wrong. For instance a person does not normally use abusive language while addressing his parents or elders. If he has to answer the call of nature, his inhibitory centre will prevent him from doing so in public. Therefore he uses the toilet.
When a person consumes alcohol, the inhibitory centre itself is inhibited. That is precisely the reason that an inebriated person is often found to be indulging in behaviour that is completely uncharacteristic of him. For instance the intoxicated person is found to use abusive and foul language and does not realize his mistake even if he is addressing his parents. Many even urinate in their clothes. Neither do they talk nor walk properly. They even misbehave.
Many may argue in favour of liquor by calling themselves 'social drinkers'. They claim that they only have one or two pegs and they have self-control and so never get intoxicated. Investigations reveal that every alcoholic started as a social drinker. Not a single alcoholic or drunkard initially starts drinking with the intention of becoming an alcoholic or a drunkard. No social drinker can say that I have been having alcohol for several years and that I have so much self-control that I have never been intoxicated even a single time.

Suppose a 'social drinker' loses his self-control just once. In a state of intoxication he commits rape or incest. Even if the act is later regretted, a normal human being is likely to carry the guilt throughout his life. Both the perpetrator and the victim are irreparably and irreversibly damaged.

There are several scientific reasons for the prohibition of consumption of intoxicants i.e. alcohol. The maximum number of deaths in the world related to any one particular cause is due to the consumption of alcohol. Millions of people die every year only because of intake of alcohol. I need not go into the details of all the ill-effects of alcohol since most of them are commonly known. Below is a simple list of few of the alcohol related illnesses:
1. Cirrhosis of Liver is the most well known alcohol associated disease.
2. Others are Cancer of Oesophagus, Cancer of Head and Neck, Cancer of Liver (Hepatoma), Cancer of Bowel, etc.
3. Oesophagitis, Gastritis, Pancreatitis and Hepatitis are linked with alcohol consumption.
4. Cardiomyopathy, Hypertension, Coronary Artherosclerosis, Angina and Heart Attacks are linked with heavy alcohol intakes.
5. Strokes, Apoplexy, Fits and different types of Paralysis are linked with alcohol intake.
6. Peripheral Neuropathy, Cortical Atrophy, Cerebellar Atrophy are well-known syndromes caused by alcohol consumption.
7. Wernicke – Korsakoff syndrome with amnesia of recent events, confabulations and retainment of memory to old events with different types of paralysis are mainly due to thiamine deficiency due to excessive alcohol intake.
8. Beriberi and other deficiencies are not uncommon among alcoholics. Even Pellagra occurs in alcoholics.
9. Delerium Tremens is a serious complication that may occur during recurrent infection of alcoholics or post operatively. It also occurs during abstention as a sign of withdrawal effect. It is quite serious and may cause death even if treated in well equipped centres.
10. Numerous Endocrine Disorders have been associated with alcoholism ranging from Myxodema to Hyperthyroidism and Florid Cushing Syndrome.
11. Hematological ill effects are long and variable. Folic acid deficiency, however, is the most common manifestation of alcoholic abuse resulting in Macrocytic Anemia. Zeive's syndrome is a triad of Hemolytic Anemia, Jaundice and Hyperlipaedemia that follows alcoholic binges.
12. Thrombocytopenia and other platelet abnormalities are not rare in alcoholics.
13. The commonly used tablet metronidazole (flagyl) interacts badly with alcohol.
14. Recurrent infection is very common among chronic alcoholics. The resistance to disease and the immunological defense system are compromised by alcohol intake.
15. Chest infections are notorious in alcoholics. Pneumonia, Lung Abcess, Emphysema and Pulmonary Tuberculosis are all common in alcoholics.
16. During acute alcoholic intoxication, the drunk person usually vomits, the cough reflexes which are protective are paralysed. The vomitus thus easily pass to the lung causing Pneumonia or Lung Abscess. Occasionally it may even cause suffocation and death.
17. The ill effects of alcohol consumption on women deserves special mention. Females are more vulnerable to alcohol-related Cirrhosis than men. During pregnancy alcohol consumption has a severe detrimental effect on the foetus. Foetal Alcohol Syndrome is being recognised more and more in the medical profession.
18. Skin diseases are also related to alcohol indulgence.
19. Eczema, Alopecia, Nail Dystrophy, Paronychia (infection around the nails) and Angular Stomatitis (inflammation of the angle of the mouth) are common diseases among alcoholics.

Bad things attract you,you will love the world in which alcohol brings you initially,but you will never return to the world you live in .

I got all the answers to my question tags !!

Special thanks to

Thursday, 17 November 2011

Crazy Ads aur kya

You will get a gold coin in soap-Did anybody really got that?i did not ..my neighbor wasted lots of money in buying dozens of that soap,however not even one gold coin(she would rather had bought  gold coin or silver one actually ..gold rates are higher nowadays).People really believe in these ads and buy it..Gold coin in Soap..Crazy

Star Diva ‘ “ degi aap ke sawlo ka jawab direct baat karne ke liye Abhi subscribe kariye..Rs 10 p/m .So cheap why we need to talk to the diva,whats the proof she is on the other side. And please why do not have to fantasize them so much...do you think we are such a fool?what do these people think our IQ level is at -1?or lesser

Mango Drink ad Aapjeet sakte hain 1crore rupaye..Kya Colddrink pine se ek crore milege..i would pledge to drink and survive on Mango drink only…I will eat mango drink,I will drink mango drink and I will laugh mango drink..Bullshit .We don’t get 1lakh,working for full one month and we will get 1crore in minutes ,are we so nuts?

 One shampoo ad,a girl tied her hair to a pole on one side and started pulling her hairs,to show it is so strong,Excuse me,are you playing with us,we knew its not your hair,or even hairs ..nothing for guessing its black rope.

Answer a simple question Bol ____________ Bol tune yeh kya kiya.and chances to win Car.Are you talking about a toycar.?look sms charges will be 3 rs per sms and toy car will charge atleast rs 100.why the hell I will bother to answer

One more fool maker advertisement ..aaj Free LCD tv paiye,bas sahi jawab dijiye Bollywood kaha hain 1.India 2.Mumbai………thanks for giving me options I would use a life line here ..Free LCD ke liye kuch bhi karega

You must have seen that new ad on media channels , where they show two half faces demographic there ,so you should recognize these faces of the Actors/actresses and you would get lakhs of rupees. Wow lakhs for such a simple work…I promise I would stick to the idiot box for hours…I will be millionaire in a month

Wow this is great marketing they have done PhD to fool common people here,and we become the victims to these ads,actually but I must say how they use creativity at par and make lots of money.So tell me are you Fool of the day

Tuesday, 15 November 2011

Is somebody copying you?

If somebody trying to copy your signature you called it forgery, if somebody try copying your work its widely known as plagiarism. And thus they invented copyrights to protect the rights of the owner. But is it really reserved? What will you call when somebody tries to copy you in many ways?

We went shopping I picked up a earrings from tribal I loved it and the list goes on for shopping’s asked her what will you shop she said nothing now will shop later.
The other day I saw her with the same hairstyle as of mines and she was inquiring about the purse I got from Hidesign.I was calm and clumsy at the same time.
I know girls love pink color, but never seen even one pink in her wardrobe, but now she wears the same pink as I am wearing, I was like strange what’s to happening this girl. I was flummoxed and said in this world one Farah of my kind is enough I know that was crazy line, but tell me what you will do if your style is copied openly. What a guts madam .how can I say that y style is not generic, do invent your own! I wish I had a copy right for my style too, but then I calmed myself saying it’s okay “when something is copied it leaves its originality “wow but seems rubbish when the same feeling comes when I see the same color,hairstyle,clips,hairbands and accessories !!
It’s strange feeling indeed, nope its neither good nor bad. But why people can’t be real!
It’s not just limited to clothes and style, people at times copy thoughts (which cannot be copied in real life) virtually! If it’s for good then it’s pretty fine but bad ones can turn you into evil, what if we copy somebody lifestyle, I am poor cannot afford brands, still since everyone wears Prada, I too want Prada!
Or being called as modern it’s not about being in love with foreign culture it’s like imbibing all good things in you…its nothing bad in wearing western dress. But when you started showing skin and reveal yourself(even if it’s not comfortable)then it’s not you and not even your culture…Some people say proudly  I  listen only English songs, wear only western clothes ,I hardly know about my country but love other Countries etc.Excuse me ,what are you trying to say here..promoting other countries kya
You are very religious as a person, but you are shy to even to cover your head with duppata on religious occasions as you think what people will think. Then you are not you…you are what other people think.
It’s time to understand what we are, you can copy accessories and colors, but don’t accessorize yourself with foreign mask (coz it’s not you)

Monday, 14 November 2011

Happy Childrens day

Childhood is the best way to express yourself !!!

Happy Children's day




As children, we played hide and seek with one another, as adults with ourselves.

You think you are deprived…think again

"If my world were to cave in tomorrow, I would look back on all the pleasures, excitements and worthwhilenesses I have been lucky enough to have had"

I always see people around me including me ….thinking about what they don’t have..starting with girls “Oh,I am so whitish..i wanna be fair like Kareena”! ‘I wish my hairs were naturally straight “!”fish,I am so fat”….why I am so short look at those models?..why my eyes keeps plunging out…Why do I look like this?...i have so much of low self-esteem..
While others…I wish I had salary (whatever you wish for) even u are earning Rs 50,000/-..you want more don’t you!my friend recently got a new car..i cant afford a car..so poor(u think u are poor..if u cant afford a car)..Ipads,Apple,Black-berries,Bugatti's,Range rover,Royal parties,Big bungalow owners are the happiest person on earth..They are not deprived of anything!Wow I wish I had more…Don’t we all think this,at least one of the above.

I had this thought when I was very low thinking about the deprivation!,i don't have this & that !  All of the sudden one of my friend started saying about her cousin, who is about 12 years old and suffering from diabetes…how can 12 year old be diabetic?yes she is diabetic who have to inject herself daily(as both her parents working)she herself inject herself(think of injections ).She is deprived of eating junk food,chocolates.ice creams,cakes,pastries,rice,spicy food.She is teenage girl who have to adjust herself all the time.Have you ever controlled yourself for not eating MacDonald's burger!Some even say she has become weak too.this is just a short real time scenario.

But there are many who even cannot think about those deprivations, as they have no intellect to even think about,child labor,poor people,unhealthy people!!!May Allah bless them all
If we are healthy,living at home,3 times proper meal,clothes which are washed!then we are lucky enough to live life happily....but the urge to get more than what we have ..we forget living and start complaining about whatever we have  ..i know we get more than this!
We are not deprived we just get more than what is required !
And we should thank our gods for what he gave us !!and  say We are lucky
Good luck