Friday, 17 August 2012

100 Things About Me

I'm stealing this idea from Dawn. But in Honor of my 100th post I'll post 100 things about me in absolutely no particular order. Anything you did or didn't know?

My birthday is August 27...
I'm turning 25.....Getting older displeases me greatly but I think you can never be older than you think...I love babies and old people...Though in an ideal world I think they are both same that is when you are oldest and when you are youngest....I hate Action flicks... Supposedly I sometimes talk to myself and that too loud... And I know French basic too  when I do...I have a degree in Masters...And loved every minute of being a teacher as my Momma is teacher ...I'm a IT professional  now.. ..And I love reading Middle east...My favourite accessories  are Watches and those lovely diamonds and steel belts ummah...Lots of Kaajal  is my makeup of choice....My Bedroom has roof ultimately designed  by my  hubby which is what made me fall in love with it.... I love the roadside Cheese toast sandwich ...I think I began to fall in love with roadside panipuris too ..
... I'am really bad when I get tempted for those roadside chaats ..
I love the ocean because it fills me with peace....My favourite color is pink...My favourite color to decorate anything with is shades of white and beige....I love drawing henna/mehndi patterns....I'm a breakfast person...Friendship is very important for through life I'm learning it's value....My longest friendship has lasted 8 years (and counting..).....I like watching Sarabhai v/s Sarabhai......  My favorite singer is Atif Aslam  ...I love it so much when positive and lively people come over at same place....I love to travel although I travel less .... I love being idiotic at times (or all times).... I am late always when called up by friends and love ...Though homemade chai is my caffeinated beverage of choice....Almost every article of clothing I own is from lifestyle and Colors....All my Kurtas and those patialas are often my choice ...I love to be lazy .....I used to understand Bengali and Gujarati fluently...I can speak Urdu but I get intimidated around aunties....I love to write.... I love reading, particularly those self esteem and philosophy  The secret and Robin sharma...and Nicholas Sparks i....I love to sing (although I m bad singer),....... I have a hidden talent of cooking which is unhiding after I got married ....Even in hot weather, I can't take cold showers....I love the smell of fragrant  Room fresheners ....and so much that I use perfumed detergent for clothes ...I  do not use a laptop.... I can't believe I ever used a laptop..... I'm paranoid about it getting viruses....On our honeymoon we went to Della a perfect plan and awesome romantic place with sunset and lights all over........I do not wear a nose ring...And  slightly curly hair that I straighten...I love colorful bedsheets ...And hardwood floors...I love sound of music....I love being immature all the time .......I love wraps and shawls in the winter time(although its less of winter here).....My favorite season is winter.....I....and love cleaning the toilet with washing powders and lizol ....I love throw pillows....I'm very sentimental... and sensitive...I hate people who are double standards....I  don’t think about the future a lot...Everything is planned by allah .....I am a parlor person atleast for cleansing ...I love doing hair spa....I am not addicted to television  yes I can live without it .......I hate people criticizing ....But now I look back fondly upon it.....And I

 miss watching the snow fall at night blanketing the world in peaceful silence....During my childhood my ultimate dream what was to get married ....I recently searched about Cars and cars as my hubby is obsessed about Cars…....When Aladdin came out, my neighbour's four year old daughter saw me with my hair braided wearing Pakistani clothes and ran in to the house shrieking "It's princess Jasmine outside!"...I dislike it when people talk obnoxiously loud on their cell phones about private matters.... Chacha chaudary  is my favourite comic strip..........!....I've watched the JAB WE MET more than 9 times It acts as a mood swing to me...I am a Crazy family drama movie fan …I hate Child labour .....My Home building was collapsed when I was in standard 7.....I hate people who gets angry soon…they are weakest ones who throw their anger on others….I still freeze in my tracks with fear when there is strong wind.....I actually like washing clothes with loads of bubbles I play it around........Catwalk and Inch5 are my favourite Heels....I like the fan on even when its cold... 

Lastly thanks all the readers to be part of this great journey ...journey called as Blog and post 

Below are some of my favourite posts :-

 while the most famous post are :-

Flat stomach temptation -Day 1 

to be bride....must haves

Love ya ...looking forward to blogging and blogging :)



Look at the signs of allah

You look at the sky
You look at the flowers
You look at the Ocean 
You look at the Birds flying
You look at the Human Anatomy
You look at the water
You look at the colors
You will find him everywhere
He is Omnipresent
You do not need to go anywhere 
You will find him everywhere 
Ask him with all you heart
He will give you everything you wish with good deed 
Ask him and bow down
Allah is everywhere 
You will be amazed 

Just as Allah says in the Quran his signs are everywhere for us to see and appreciate.

Alvida Jummah!Ramzaan

So it is last Friday of ramzaan .
Masjids will be filled and roads will be clocked near masjids ,people will bow down to pray namaz and say alvida jumaah .
Yesterday was Shaabe qadra night of destiny when Allah decides the destiny for you and it is also the night when Quran was revealed.
Ramzaan always comes with great happiness,Muslims fast from dusk to dawn ,they pray,they remember allah and refrain from evil as shaitan is locked up during this month .
Ramzaan the whole month feeling is something different its vivacious and pride feeling.
May Ramzaan brings us all the happiness and peace inshallah
Jummah Mubarak to all

Tuesday, 14 August 2012

Arranged marriage syndrome

I know I cant remind myself that I am married,wowie I promise I wont personalise this post!
The word Marriage enters the life of a girl as soon as she completed her education ,for some before that,some Family decides and for other some their decision .
Lets Check out the Awesome verses for Love marriage v/s Arrange marriage

1.Searching for Groom
Arrange marriage-I want a handsome guy with handsome salary with handsome car (Excuse me everything handsome are you handsome).Tell me do you get everything as per your requirements keep this aside girl .
Have a look at the profiles of the handsome ones

hi i m dharmesh raval looking for good girl in usa i m doing bissnes i m opticians i m in rajkot (gujarat) india looking for simpl n good girl in usa(what bissness and why simple girl in USA when you in gujrat)

This is ashish panchal from is very difficult to describe any one in a words, because we can't understand someone after living our whole life with him or her. But let me try to describe myself. I m very simple, honest & senti kind of person. i believe in 4S (Safe, Simple, Secure & Strate forward)policy for my life. Besically i belong to Lower-Middle Class family. I m very reserve kind of personality but i have a lots of friends. My every friend has speciality. U know why? because they have friend like me(Full marks on writing composition on Myself)

im extremly attractive and handsome guy looking for a well settled NRI girl.(attractive you possessing magnet quality)
im very loving and loyal.
Can be a excellent husband.(You are so experience husband that you rated yourself as excellent lolz)
 Now tell me how will you find suitable groom for you from this matrimonial sites.

2.To be Groom’s first encounter 

I know its crazy to showcase yourself in front of the family and the groom with the tray of samosas and Tea in hand and Duppata on head and adroitness on face
  • What’s your name ?(Even though everybody knows your name)girl they are checking you are not deaf or dumb
  • Studying …okay(No I sell these samosas at local stores..4 rs each)
  • My son had done this and this and this(So why he landed here ???)
  • Nowadays its allowed to be alone with guy to talk and know each other (wow …know each other in one day or 25 minz I must be astronaut Oooops astrologer)

 3.Rejections from Grooms side 
This always gets into my nerves,Grooms family assume that their son is the prince and they ultimately need a princess
  • Very black I want fair girl(Are you endorsing Fair and lovely or what)
  • Should be Slim?(Look at you Fat hippo)
  • I did not like her nose(So fix it ….youu)
  • Not so modern(So choose Gaga)
  • My son looks younger than her(Really must be using Ponds age miracle)
  • I think she stammers
  • Not jovial (should jump and laugh)
  • Not so beautiful(you want Aishwarya or Katrina ?)

Lastly,marriages are made in heaven and heaven is prearranged with love.So all the best for your marriage and make sure you make the right decision

This blog article is inspired by Sony entertainment Television's upcoming fun serial
Love Marriage ya Arranged Marriage.

Wednesday, 8 August 2012

I saw hell on earth

Dont do bad things or you will go to hell
I asked always what is hell like

Humans were not humans
relatives became unknown and formal
Life became machines .
People were  clusters of ant
Some were crying,some were dying
but you know nobody cares
I stand still  and stare
I saw devil 
and angels are no where 
I was afraid and scared
I saw humanity died and played around
People were  laughing
people were  crying
There were so many distress
so many distraught
felt so helpless and so disturbed 
I cried so hard but nobody heard
even my voice went unheard by myself
there was no shoulders to cry
no company to eat
no water to drink
i saw blood
i saw fear
i saw love in the eyes of the dears
rich and poor all in one line
fighting for life
time was less and number was more
whom to save and whom to not
 I was more 
Felt like shouting to Allah
If this is hell on earth !
what will be real Hell like